Marriage

What No One Wants to Admit About Their Marriage After a Baby

Thumbnail image for What No One Wants to Admit About Their Marriage After a Baby by Evanthia May 13, 2013

Lately, I’ve been having these dreams…romantic dreams. Not sexual, just romantic, but painfully romantic. You know, the way romance felt when you were a super-hormonal teenager, and just a fleeting glance from your crush could send you into a tizzy? Those kinds of dreams. I’m sure it’s my subconscious’s way of telling me that romance [...]

7 comments Read the full article →

Chez Evanthia: A Romantic Valentine’s Day Dinner…at Home

Thumbnail image for Chez Evanthia: A Romantic Valentine’s Day Dinner…at Home by Evanthia February 5, 2013

“So, what are we doing for Valentine’s Day?” My husband has been nervously asking me this question every couple of days for the last week. “I don’t know. We don’t have a babysitter, so I guess we’re staying in this year,” I respond, casually. I know J is feeling anxious because this is one of [...]

8 comments Read the full article →

Oh, Wait…It’s Our Anniversary??

Thumbnail image for Oh, Wait…It’s Our Anniversary?? by Evanthia October 22, 2012

My husband and I have been complaining for weeks (okay, maybe more like months or years) that we have no time for ourselves. I don’t mean time for us individually, which is a whole separate problem that I’ve documented fairly extensively; I mean time together, as a couple. Part of the reason we’ve been thinking [...]

14 comments Read the full article →

Polygamy’s Place in My Bedroom

Thumbnail image for Polygamy’s Place in My Bedroom by Evanthia October 3, 2012

I’m not usually one to make much of dreams. Although I often remember them vividly, I can almost always tie them back to something that happened during the day, something my subconscious is trying to work through. But last night, I had a dream that can’t logically be explained away. It just makes no sense. [...]

6 comments Read the full article →

Should Dads Be More Fun?

Thumbnail image for Should Dads Be More Fun? by Evanthia September 3, 2012

A couple of weeks ago, we took what is becoming our annual summer trip to the beach, when J takes a whole week off of work, we rent a house with friends, and we get to spend time as a family just having fun. Too often, I feel twinges of guilt as A and I [...]

7 comments Read the full article →

Giveaway: It’s Better to Give than to Receive? Only if You Have a Gift Idea!

Thumbnail image for Giveaway: It’s Better to Give than to Receive? Only if You Have a Gift Idea! by Evanthia July 24, 2012

This is usually the time of year when I start to get a little…panicked. My husband’s birthday is just around the corner, and I’m once again desperate for gift ideas. Why are men so tricky to buy for? Why is it sooo impossible to find unusual gifts for men? He doesn’t need another tie (in [...]

2 comments Read the full article →

When People Judge your Marriage

Thumbnail image for When People Judge your Marriage by Sarahlynne May 31, 2012

Divorce. It’s something you don’t want to even consider when you get married. You get married thinking, “That won’t be us. We won’t get divorced.” And then, a few years go by, and you start to realize that if the divorce rate is 50%, that means half of your friends won’t stay in their marriages. [...]

4 comments Read the full article →